Sunday, August 30, 2026

Time to switch it up

It has been awhile since I've done a blog update and we have had a lot of changes since February. 

We started the summer with buying the house right next door to us. We have been in our house for 15 years and have loved it but the downside was no first floor master. With my neuropathy, stairs are getting harder to navigate safely. We took godly counsel and looked at other houses on the market but nothing fit exactly what we wanted. We love the area where we live, having the privacy of mature trees, storage space, etc. 

God lined it all up that we were able to buy the house before it went on the market. It needed updating and lot of painting. We had a great General Contractor (Josh Tucker) and Wil who managed a lot as well. We moved in two weeks ago and are working on getting settled in. 


This summer we had a week at Holden Beach with Wil's side of the family. This is our happy place and love going here every year. 

The boys also had a fishing trip to Canada. Wil, Wilson, GranTed (Wil's dad), and Pop Pop (my dad) all went. They went to the fishing lodge in Canada that they have been to before but it was Wilson's first time. Needless to say, they had blast. 

Now onto the medical update: 
My neuropathy has been getting worse. This is the numbness and tingling/burning pain in my feet. This has caused me to have balance issues so I have been using a cane for awhile now. I did fall (in the new house no less) and ended up breaking my right pointer finger. 
I hadn't had a scan since February and I've been having more bladder symptoms (tightness, feeling like my bladder couldn't hold as much) so it was time for a PET scan. 
The scan showed another chest wall tumor, close to the same area the one that was removed last year was. There was a new tumor on my left abdomen wall and the one below my belly button got bigger. The tumors around my bladder got bigger as well. 

Dr. Skinner went through a variety of different treatment options. Our first step was to see the breast oncologist that removed my chest wall tumor last year to see if this new one can be removed surgically. Dr. Christman thinks it can be removed, so surgery is an option. They would remove all of the tumors that are outside my abdominal cavity. Then go in laparoscopically to see if the tumors around my bladder can be removed. Dr. Skinner said she may have to do an open incision but won't know until she gets in there. We will meet back with Dr. Skinner on 9/21 to go over the surgical procedure. 

The huge praise is that I have a lot of treatment options (hormone blockers, immunotherapy, chemo) and some that weren't even options when I started this cancer journey. 

Our prayer requests moving forward:
1. Wisdom and guidance for us and my whole medical team as we decide what to do next. 
2. For peace in the waiting (sometimes the hardest part)
3. For my neuropathy pain to lessen now that I'm on a chemo holiday
4. For our kids as we transition to a new house and new treatments for me

Thursday, February 12, 2026

New Year, New Scan

We've had a lot happening since the last post. There was the flu for Wilson and me, Christmas, New Year's, Chemo infusion #200 in January, Ice/SnowPocolypse 2026, and 100th day of school. 

Chemo#1 versus Chemo #200


My Aunt Kristin came to help too! 


I had a PET scan last week and got the results on Monday. It was a mixed bag of results like usual but overall it was good. 

The one tumor in my belly fat did get bigger but it doesn't bother me at all. Since it isn't dangerous (near organs) and isn't causing issues, we are just going to leave it alone for now. 

The deeper tumors were mostly stable or smaller. So we are continuing with the current chemo, Elahere, that I've been on for 2.5 years now. 

I am having more neuropathy, pain and numbness from the chemo. Since I'm not as steady on my feet, my primary care doctor recommended I use a cane. That's taken some getting use to. 

My PET scan did show my esophagus lighting up, so I'll be seen by my old GI doctor. My primary care doctor said I may need an endoscopy. I'll be seen by GI mid-March and get more information then. 

Both kids have been doing basketball at the YMCA this season. 


They both enjoyed playing out in the winter weather. Lots of sledding and eating snow! 


Parker got to do a Cheerleader-in-Training this week and had an absolute blast. 


Wilson is looking forward to playing baseball this spring and Parker wants to try dance for the first time. 

Prayer requests:
1. Praise for PET scan results. Pray to continued effectiveness of the current chemo treatments. Pray for endurance.

2. Pray for the GI appointment to go well and no issues to arise. 

3. Pray for our friends Glenn, Mai, and Crystal- all on chemo treatments as well.